Probably needs to sit with a trained professional to work through some personal betrayal which is being projected into other aspects of his life.
*sigh* 6 of 6 Your assumptions really do serve you very poorly. Ah well. You also assume stress dovetails with viewpoint. 7 of 7
Your reliance on challenging my assumptions only goes to strengthen my beliefs. You say very little that actually would go any way to disproving what I think. So, I'll say it again. There is nothing that the board could say to change how you feel. We go on a good run and you wouldn't care about what just happened. The transfer policy is unaltered.
I think everyone is fully aware of your standpoint. How about you respect people's opinions on the board rather than telling them to get over it. If it's too annoying for you, perhaps log out for a few days?
I'm not challenging your assumptions. I'm telling you you've been wrong in every instance. I'm certainly not trying to get you to change your mind about anything. Just stating my views. You seem to be the one intent on changing others thoughts or trying to supercede your views as superior without understanding the persons standpoint. But that's your choice completely. I feel full of lunch. Very enjoyable. The transfer policy isn't unaltered. Its very evident its changed. You just don't want to accept or can't see its altered. But that's fine. You can hold any view you like. I just don't have to agree with it.
And there it is. "Leave the board because you're not upset that the board did something we don't like, you're not one of us". Expected more from you.
No, I think you're being disrespectful to most people's views on here, telling them from the moral high ground to think like you because it is much easier that way. I am suggesting that if you cannot deal with that view without repeatedly pushing people on it, as it clearly appears to be irritating you, log off and wait for the dust to settle whilst the rest of us can get it off our chests. Not trying to get you off the board, just asking you to stop antagonising people.
We also seem to have ruled out making a Hammill type signing on age grounds. You can't say that isn't another shift.
This is all so very very sad. We've now been reduced to arguing amongst ourselves, when in fact we all share the love for BFC. This is the legacy of that "statement". This is what it's done to us. People say "get over it". How does that work then? Our minds are not computers that can be rebooted, after deleting some files and clearing some caches. I'm devastated by what's happened. I wish I didn't feel like this, but I just do. When I read that I must "get over it" and/or "grow up", it just makes me feel worse. It's like the classic "pull yourself together" when someone is sad about something/someone. Please can we all try to respect each other's views, regardless of whether we agree with them? Including my views. We all want the same thing, at the end of the day. You Redz!
I put something similar and deleted it, fearing people would say I went too far. As a psychotherapist I hear my clients say that regularly... "they don't understand, they just tell me to get over it". It's up to others to process things in their own time, and what's happened to our club is no different. People are emotionally invested in it. People who have supported it for 50+ years and suddenly found it behaving in a way that hasn't been seen before.
Are you saying it is outside the realms of possibility for our current owners to behave in a professional and courteous manner. If I actually believed that or your one man mission to convince everyone of it then I certainly would vote with my feet. Manners and courtesy cost nothing.
I think you absolutely misinterpret the mood. And I also suspect we are more likely to lose 5 on the bounce than win 5
It's unrealistic not to expect a vocal reaction at the next home game. It will be the first chance for most to make themselves heard, only a minority engage on social media.
I understand that at least one of the club's owners posts on here, or at least used to. To whom it may concern, I hope you are taking note of what people are writing on here, and on other social media too. In the long term, it will only improve the club and its relationship with its fans.
