bittersweet for me today.....

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  1. sel

    selby Well-Known Member

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    My dad sadly passed away last night suddenly and without any warning......

    I saw him last night and we both went home our seperate ways. Sadly on the way he collapsed and died yards from his house.

    We were going to the match today as we are season ticket holders and have been since 96..... I know he would have wanted me to go but I just couldn't bring myself to sit next his empty chair for 90 minutes.

    Those 3 points were for you dad.......
     
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    occook Banned Idiot

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    Bless you fella. Glad the boys did him proud.
     
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    That's awful mate puts football in its place my deepest sympathy
     
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    Sincere condolences Selby .
    Stay strong mate ,
     
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    totally gutted for you fella

    sincerest condolences to you and your family.
     
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    I've got a fantastic wife and two kids to look after me.... I can't believe it's happened we travelled everywhere together I can't imagine going to oakwell without him.
     
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    Every sympathy for you - my dad passed away (years ago) suddenly - it still hurts that I never had the chance to say my goodbyes..............stay strong I'm sure your father would have wanted nothing but the best for you, and, I'm sure you'll stay strong
     
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    Marlon Well-Known Member

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    I know what you mean mate and it's devastating to hear of your sad news let alone to deal with it first hand ,but remember BFCs a community and whatever we can do to help we will .
     
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    selby Well-Known Member

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    I met him from work last night and had a couple of beers.... I just wish I knew they were the last ones...
     
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    From the Highest cloud & the most perfect sunset......... UUUUUUU RRRRRRRRRREDDDDDDZZZZ

    RIP SIR
     
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    Im so sorry, that's really heartbreaking.


    You both spent that last bit of time with each other. That's really important. Some people never get that chance. I'm sure as a Reds fan he'd have loved that display tonight. I'll have a beer for you both. Take care
     
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    RIP.

    My thoughts are with you. Hope you find the strength you need.

    UTR.
     
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    Amen to that my friend, Mi dad has Vascular Demensure (can't spell it), Mi Mam has Alzimers as well. Chuffin nightmare.
     
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    Condolences lad, really sorry to hear that, and they say Football's only a game. Stay strong, you'll come through it.
     
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    Christ. Thoughts with you. Thoughts are with you.
     
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    So sorry to hear this
     
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    My condolences mate. Can't begin to imagine how you're feeling.

    Sent from my SM-G900F using Tapatalk
     
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    Sincere condolences mate.... Reds did him proud tho.
     
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    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, mate. It certainly puts transfer gossip and other such nonsense in perspective.
    Sincere condolences to you and your family.
    Kev
     
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    Sorry too hear that mate The Reds did him proud today , he will be watching up there with my old man and the rest of the REDS fans . My thoughts are with you
     
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