Nar then buggerlugs. Not sure. I’ll have a look... “Ears ideal for use as handles which afford a sodomiser extra purchase and thus enable the delivery of a more thorough, forcefull loving.” Not my words. Urban dictionary. Apparently the term is actually a nautical one, referring to hair on the cheeks below the ears, which can be gripped and utilised in the same manner described above. Given that it’s generally used as a term of affection, often to kids, I might stop using it now...
I think that's apocryphal. Bugger grips is certainly a term used for sideburns. An amusing one in my opinion - 'That Noddy Holder's got some reight bugger grips' - and only ever used for that purpose. The implication is there, the phrase perfectly describes the act, but it's not a practice that ever took place. Similarly a moustache isn't used for straining soup. Buggalugs has always been a term of endearment. I very much doubt the etymology of the word has anything to do with buggery.