Would give anything to be at Oakwell tomorrow

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  1. Met

    Metatarsal Well-Known Member

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    Evening,

    I lost my mother very suddenly and unexpectedly on Sunday morning, it's been a massive shock to us all to say the least and it's been made tougher by the fact that we weren't with her when she passed, but thanks to observant and caring neighbours who noticed that her usual morning routine hadn't been seen, the alarm was raised and she wasn't alone for too long.

    When I lost my Dad back in 2018, we had a home game a few days later, and just being around the folk in the Ponty End who I've got to know over 25 years, talking sense and bo!!0cks in equal measure, was a real tonic at the time.

    Whilst football itself isn't that important as such, what's built around it really is - the friendships, the communities, the people etc, and the events of the last 48 hours reinforce that and I'm missing it more than ever now.

    Life goes on, and hopefully we are starting to head towards a return to matches in the coming months. More than ever, I cannot wait to struggle to get parked, have to take the long walk around the railway station as the bridge is still closed, and find that the TVs aren't working on the concourse. Much missed.
     
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    JLWBigLil Well-Known Member

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    I'm so, so sorry to hear of your loss, old mate. Your bad luck seems to be never ending. Every time we've met at the ground you have been terrific company.
    Sincere condolences to you and your family from me and mine.
     
  3. Met

    Metatarsal Well-Known Member

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    Thank you mate for those kind words.
     
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    Sorry to hear of your loss, sincere condolences to you all. Like yourself I’m looking forward to the day I can go back to Oakwell
     
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    So sorry to hear about your mum pal.
    Keep your chin up and hopefully the Reds can bring you a bit of solace this week.
    RIP Mrs M
     
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    So sorry to hear about your Mum. Our collective thoughts and best wishes
    are with you and your family.
     
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    Sorry to hear that mate, hope the Reds win for you.
     
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    so sorry, mate. Mine have both gone too. Adopted kid, but so my mam & dad. Keep every memory safe. xx
     
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    Sorry to hear that Bud. Be kind to yourself.
     
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    So sorry to hear about your mum. May she rest in peace
     
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    So sorry to hear of your sad loss.

    May your Mum rest in peace.

    Take care my friend
     
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    Hi Andy So sorry to hear about your loss Hopefully it will not be too long before we can talk sense and more usually B*ll*cks in the ponty
     
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    So sorry tof hear you've lost your mum.
     
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    So much humanity in that post. It's a very odd thing to say, that someone recounting the death of their mum could be inspiring, but this is. Sorry for your loss. Hope you're all OK. Hope you get to a match soon.
     
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    Sorry for your loss
     
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    Thoughts with ya Andy
     
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    $hite news mate.

    Hope the Reds can do it for you tonight and - importantly - on Saturday.

    COYR
     
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    Sorry to hear of your loss. Best wishes from me and my family.
     
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    So sorry for your loss. All the very best to you.
     
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    Condolences mate. To you and yours. At this sad time.
     
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