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  1. Redhelen

    Redhelen Well-Known Member

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    Break ups are never easy. I echo the getting out in fresh air for a walk/ cycle. And when I'm down I always have the mantra doing something , however small is better than nothing. Been at work today, and then watched my son play football. Looking forward to watching us play the blunts tomorrow and the cricket on Sunday ( please don't rain!)
     
    Redhelen, Jul 22, 2022
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    Redhelen Well-Known Member

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    Where was that? Someone posted about losing a pet snake on Facebook a day or 2 ago?
     
    Redhelen, Jul 22, 2022
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    NathanBFC94 Well-Known Member

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    It was near Langold. It was 100% a grass snake, doubt it was a pet. Seen a fair few over the last few weeks as there is a big lake at Langold and they are often around there.
     
    NathanBFC94, Jul 22, 2022
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    thetykester Well-Known Member

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    Missed this post mate, If at all possible get yourself out & about. Take a good long walk into somewhere that takes you back to nature, somewhere away from the Hussle & bustle. It does me the world of good, good exercise & calming to see all different species,
    be it flora or fauna. It gives you time to reflect & open yourself to new experiences. Take care owd warrior.
     
    thetykester, Jul 22, 2022
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    Is this the one? Swam up to me when I was fishing a couple of weeks ago. Terrifying beast. IMG-20220602-WA0000.jpg
     
    scarf, Jul 23, 2022
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    The one I saw that made me run away like a wimp was a fair bit bigger than that.

    However I am petrified of snakes so I'd probably run away from that one too
     
    NathanBFC94, Jul 23, 2022
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    Steve Irwin over ere :D
     
    Redarmy87, Jul 23, 2022
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    Hicksy Administrator Staff Member Admin

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    I went through the same 5 years ago - I had a bit of a meltdown but pulled myself together and how I’m right. Very right. Took some graft though.

    I’ll not go into details on here, but DM me if you want any advice.

    Work your way through it in stages and you’ll be fine. When you get to the other side you will be fine. I promise.
     
    Hicksy, Jul 23, 2022
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    Avoid stingrays.
    Danger! Danger!
     
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    Did anyone hear from @tomaiba following his post. A bit concerning if not.
     
    Simon De Montforte, Sep 11, 2022
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    No, I don't think we have unfortunately.
     
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    Does anyone on here know him / her personally ?
     
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    Unfortunately he was an American who adopted Barnsley as his UK club so its doubtful that anyone knew him personally. Don't know if @Loko the Tyke contacted him via email or not but the fact he stopped posting immediately after the original post suggests that not all is well. Sincerely hope I'm wrong.
     
    Simon De Montforte, Sep 11, 2022
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    I’ll try a personal message to him but other than that, it’s difficult knowing what to do !
    Hope it’s a good response
     
    x11barnsley, Sep 11, 2022
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    Loko sent him an email to his personal account and had no response.
     
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    x11barnsley Well-Known Member

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    I’ve messaged him but notice that he has viewed the forum on 2nd Sept.
     
    x11barnsley, Sep 11, 2022
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    Hopefully that's positive.
     
    Gimson&theBarnsleys, Sep 11, 2022
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    Best advice I've ever had given about break ups and I should know I've experienced plenty...cry yourself a river, then build a bridge and get over it as quick as you can....

    Glad I'm not bi sexual ...I couldn't do with the fellas rejecting me as well.... lol
     
    shed131, Sep 11, 2022
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    Suffered with mental health and anxiety for a number of years . Got to the point where I considered giving up . Told a mate how I was I felt better instantly . You've done the hard bit . Message me if you need to chat
     
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    No response and it looks like he hasn’t checked in the site since 2nd Sept.
     
    x11barnsley, Sep 13, 2022
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