O/T Single again now.

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  1. Ste

    Stephen Dawson Well-Known Member

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    Laura just using watsapp to rub my nose in it now. Look at me I'm talking to other blokes. You ought to go on Badoo with your Dad body she said.
     
    Stephen Dawson, Jun 7, 2023
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    So what? Let her do that. You're well shut of her mate even if you don't realise it yet.
     
    SuperTyke, Jun 7, 2023
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    I'm not entirely sure what badoo is, but do it. Use her spite against her if she's just doing it to wind you up mate. I obviously don't know the ins & outs but I really dislike stuff like this when there is an innocent child involved, especially one so young.
     
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    portsmouth tyke Well-Known Member

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    Absolute vile thing to do
     
    portsmouth tyke, Jun 7, 2023
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    Stephen just take yourself off WhatsApp.
    Sounds she is just being a bitch. Very hurtful.
    Fortunately no such things in my day. It was 1990 and most things were word of mouth. No even mobiles.
    Tbh the best thing would be to be seen out with a woman. That might get to her.
    Anyway all the best and keep in contact with your son.
     
    arabian_ian, Jun 7, 2023
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    Definitely right there DONT RISE TO IT Steve,that's what she wants ,DONT give her the pleasure, sounds a nasty piece of work - like my EX! stay strong !!!!
     
    Redblueunwhite, Jun 7, 2023
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    So many good years ahead with just you and your child, honestly I love doing things just me and the kids and you will too.

    You don't need anything but the love of your child.
     
    ubique_tyke, Jun 7, 2023
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    The grass ( for her) may turn out not so green, she's probably in the teenage giddy phase but when reality kicks in in a few months time the penny ( may) drop, the excitement and honeymoon part will fade and she will realise what a right Royal f£%k up she made, then you can sit back and have a pint with karma
     
    portsmouth tyke, Jun 7, 2023
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    Cheers mate. Cheers everyone. It feels good to let it out.
     
    Stephen Dawson, Jun 7, 2023
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    She appears to be showing her true colours SD....do you really want that Sh. 1t behavior in your life. As hard as it is don't raise to the bait walk away from it buddy would be my advice....the lack of response from you will be enough to hurt her ego buddy ...just my opinion
     
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    It's given me a bit of closure mate.
     
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    Go and Badoo and match her - but then just tell her you are too busy with dates :)

    For maximum troll points, make some fake accounts that match with her and then turn up for the date "Oh I didn't recognise you from the photo" and leave...
     
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    Done watsapp again tonight. She's inserted a few more pearls about her social life. I just messaged her and told her to just keep it to the bare minimum for George. Ended call because George was kicking off about his iPad lol.

    Her inner slag is coming to the fore though. I won't lie it's upsetting but feeling stronger myself now.

    Just feels like she's manipulating the situation regarding the calls. As a means of keeping tabs on me.

    I can't remember one time she's gone boogieing and done watsapp while I was putting him to bed. Feels like control to be honest.

    Onwards and upwards.
     
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    Stay strong mate and do not say anything back to her in retaliation despite the fact you're probably desperate to. Hopefully she will stop when she realises you aren't playing ball and that she isn't getting a rise out of you. As someone else posted above, there wil come a time when the dust settles and she may think what a **** up she's made and that will be your karma.
    All the best.
     
    Shepley Red, Jun 9, 2023
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    Glad yer gerrin stronger- you WILL given time,DONT rise to her - in any form lol.
     
    Redblueunwhite, Jun 9, 2023
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    Steve ditch WhatsApp and let her know you have done so. You won’t be hurt and she will lose that weapon
     
    arabian_ian, Jun 9, 2023
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    She's after a reaction so the best form of attack is not giving her one. It will soon lose its novelty and you'll both be on better terms for it. Don't give her anything to have a go at you for.
     
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    Failing that get one of the mates to make a few false accounts up and thank you for a great night hope to do it again messages lol
    That would wind her up a bit and play her at her own game lol
     
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    7343"]Failing that get one of the mates to make a few false accounts up and thank you for a great night hope to do it again messages lol
    That would wind her up a bit and play her at her own game lol[/QUOTE]
    Great idea but could get messy pretty quick.
     
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    Great idea but could get messy pretty quick.[/QUOTE]

    Any messier than it seems to be getting?
    Nah best just let her know you no longer use WhatsApp.
     
    arabian_ian, Jun 9, 2023
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