Sorry for asking but it makes me sorry to hear about people being sorry for everything that's going on.
I'm sorry to read this. It's a sorry state of affairs. My old mate @Lepton-red gave me some sound advice when we played football together: stop saying sorry!
But most of the time its a weasel apology isn't it? You often here something along the lines of: "I'm sorry that you are upset by what I said/did" Which is classic gaslighting. Its very rare you hear someone say I'm sorry for what I said/did and leave it at that.
That’s best when my wife says sorry, she absolutely hates it, it’s like trying to get blood from a stone getting a sorry from her!! I’m sure most of the time she has her fingers toes arms and legs crossed too