I like to always bear in mind that threads like that make it clear that there's more good than bad around. The knuckledraggers are yesterday's news, even though they don't realise it yet.
That was a reply to someone who suggested that men have left there familys to come here get there claim accepted and then bring the family over. When I questioned how they would get in touch his reply was I'm not a expert in African telecoms. My reply was sarcastic at no point was it intended to be racist.
Your initial question has been answered numerous times on this thread by at least two different posters. Your question about the males has been answered numerous times on this thread by at least two different posters. You've only got to click on the link from earlier today and the recent tragedy where so many people lost their lives. I feel like I'm wasting my time. I've tried.
I was called a happy clapper a few weeks ago because I ridiculed internet trolls who abuse women. What a time to be alive.