Old school respect…….

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  1. jud

    judith charmers Well-Known Member

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    Yesterday I was saddened to attend a funeral of a much loved person who had a lovely route to church, on the way we had to stop at some traffic lights and a random elderly gentleman stopped, put down his shopping, removed his hat and bowed his head, it’s probably the most respectful thing I’ve ever witnessed……..sir, whoever you was it was an amazing thing to do.

    We, including myself, can all learn from acts of respectful kindness like that

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    judith charmers, Jan 20, 2024
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    Was done quite often in the long and distant and have done it myself as will quite a few more on here have done.
     
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    Was always the done things when I was growing up, nowadays you see folk overtaking a funeral cortège
     
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    I have always done that. Still do.
     
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    A remember when I first started work when
    I was 16, we was on a job at Royston, same afternoon there was a funeral cortège and we was kindly asked that when it passed if we could down our tools which we obviously obliged…,,,it was a moment that stuck with me forever too
     
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    judith charmers Well-Known Member

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    Top man
     
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    When a cortege drives past and I'm in the car, I always turn the radio off.
     
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    Just something I was brought up with. At the end of the day respect costs nothing.
     
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    I always bow my head.
     
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    A fairly simple act, but one which shows there is still some common decency and respect left in the world. Well done that man.
     
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    Recently when I was teaching my son to drive ,problem arrived up Staincross common.
    Narrow road ,so we waited while hearse sorted out situation..
    Person behind blasting horn for 5 minutes.
    I did get out and told them they had no respect
    They told me to **** off.
    If I had done that to them ,I would have been called racist , say no more.
     
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    Eh?
     
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    I live pretty close to the Crematorium in north Sheffield. I always stop if I see a funeral come through. When I’m out in my bike, I get off, and put it down and wait until the cars have gone through.
     
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    One word sums this up
    RESPECT
    unfortunately it's becoming less and less obvious.
    Call me old fashioned but this younger generation, including my kids and grandkids seem to have lost all perception of how to deal with us of a certain age :rolleyes:
     
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    We often have a short silence before matches at Oakwell or fans will clap or 'flash' their mobiles at a certain time to commemeorate someone. This is always done with respect and very rarely interrupted by anyone.
     
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    And neighbours used to close their curtains as a mark of respect.
     
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    Yes one word . Respect .
     
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    Respect and manners are one thing that comes free in life
     
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    What???? Please explain.
     
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    Take my cap off every single time, simple show of respect.
     
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