It was for my comment highlighting the various posts the offended poster had made over the years. Ironic really but it's what you come to expect from someone as inwardly ignorant and hypocritical as the one who you thought replied to you.
Jesus, this has been a painful read. There’s some self righteousness in this thread and it astonishes me how highly some people regard themselves on a forum that’s utterly irrelevant to life.
I think it’s interesting that (unless I’ve missed it), none of the ‘known’ women on this board have commented on any of the threads about this topic, even though they have reached multiple pages. It’s difficult because I don’t like the posts but I know he struggles with his mental heath and I don’t want to be a reason for him to feel worse. Nothing I’m about to say is a reflection on him, he may be a lovely guy, it’s purely about those posts. The thing I will say is just that I find the repetitiveness draining. I’m not offended by the content but I don’t see why basically every post has to be of that nature. It’s like if someone had a thing where they just replied a variation of ‘haha, farts’ to every post, there’s only so many times you can laugh. Or, if you use other social media, it’s like the bots and OF girls who reply with something sexual on everything. I’m sure if I, a woman in my 30s, started replying like they do on every post people would soon get sick of it. Anytime there’s a corner I said something like ‘I wouldn’t mind a corner flag up my bum’ or we get a penalty and I chimed in with ‘he can have a go in my box’. It might be hilarious (or not) at first but if it was every post for years with posts that are derogatory to men sprinkled in whilst at the same time saying that I’m shy around men and don’t know how to talk to them, then you’d probably get a bit fed up of it. On Twitter, I’d just block those accounts but it’s more difficult on here because the posts all go in a linear fashion and it’s hard to follow a conversation if some posts are blocked when replies keep referring back to it. I’m not a prude, I enjoy a risqué joke as much as anyone, and we’ve had multiple threads over the years that have been quite graphic sexually (looking at you @Terry Nutkins) but it’s not the only content he brings to the board and he doesn’t derail other threads with it, it’s generally contained within a specific thread that I know what I’m getting into when I open it.
So he's got a month in BBS jail? If Starmer was an admin SD would be posting again by the time tomorrow's match day thread starts.
Some fannies on here, they talk a good game though..... Law, politics, religion, plenty of virtue signalling and moral superiority..... Vast majority probably wouldn't say boo to a goose, unless it's behind a keyboard. Barnsley folk my ar$e.
Like Jam Drop I find it all very tiresome and a bit cringey. I’m not a prude and I do have a sense of humour but it’s relentless. It doesn’t necessarily offend me but I just get bored with it. As a result I have put him on ignore - he is the only person I have ever had on ignore. I hope he comes back but i also hope he realises that not everyone wants to read innuendo in every post, and if he just toned it down a bit there would be no problem. As far as I’m aware, he’s been warned several times. I don’t think anyone on Admin makes a decision to ban someone for the sake of it.
Surely not the most dangerous thing? Not even as dangerous as 'Who has drank the rat poison I just mixed up in that pop bottle'.
Please dont give the lad some stick regardless how you feel, no one knows him personally and his posts could have been his way of coming to terms with life peace x
Hardly anybody is giving SD any stick mate. In fact just about everyone seems to be saying they wish him well. Just a few people, like me, asking why loads of his posts have to have smut or innuendo in them. Like I said in a previous post he comes over as a genuine bloke and I hope he's ok. I wonder if he'll read this thread at some point. He's certainly got people talking since he's been banned.
He's not been banned as he. He was suspended for a month by admin who deemed he posted something offensive/out of order. Instead of deciding to maybe use that time to reflect or take some time out, he then decided to start a thread abusing admin and went to play with Nudger on that weird place over there. I was suspended for 10 days about 4 years ago for posting abusive filth to another poster when I was going through a tough time and may or may not have had a few. You've just got to accept you're in the wrong and apologise.