Sad news to report....

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  1. Tyke_67

    Tyke_67 Well-Known Member

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    Sadly, at 2 o'clock this morning, my Dad gave up his fight against lung and bowel cancer and passed away in his sleep.

    For his sins, he was a Leeds supporter in the 60s and 70s. Mum went with him a few times and he took me to Elland Road when I was old enough.

    Then the fateful day in 1978. Allan Clarke was appointed Barnsley player manager. My Dad took me to Oakwell and we stood on the corner between the Ponty End and the West Stand. I was hooked and I told my Dad this is where I wanted to come. So that's what we did. So, in theory I converted Dad to a Barnsley supporter.

    Sadly he couldn't make it to the games in the last 10 years or so, but that didn't make him any less of a Barnsley fan. I still go to Mum and Dad's for my Dinner before each and every Barnsley game.

    The best story I've got of my Dad is of the day of the game at Anfield in January 1982. Dad took me and a schoolmate to the game. As everyone knows it was very foggy and there was a traffic jam on the M62. Dad got off the motorway at some random junction....

    ""Where are we going Dad"
    "Following that van. It's going to Liverpool" says Dad.

    There were no markings on the van. No scarves or anything hanging out of the windows. Low and behold we pull into a car park near Anfield with 10 minutes before kickoff. So we managed to see the whole game. I still don't know how he did it.

    Thanks Dad.

    RIP
     
  2. TitusMagee

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    Really sorry to hear of your loss :(
     
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    Shepley Red Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss and sincere condolences to you and the rest of your family.
     
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    Sad news to hear , thoughts and condolences to you & yours
     
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    Sorry for your loss
     
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    Sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family.
     
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    i'm so sorry for your sad loss mate, my thoughts go out to you and yours
     
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    Very sorry for your loss. Sympathies with your family. R.I.P.
     
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    So sad but at the same time some lovely happy memories, condolences to you all.
     
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    So sorry to hear your sad news. I love the Anfield tale, parental superpower!
     
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    Sad news mate. My thoughts are with you and your family.
     
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    My condolences to you and your family.
     
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    No matter the time of year it's ***** news mate. If your Dad knew he was loved (and I'm sure he did) and you can look back, think of him, and smile - that's as much as any of us can ask.

    My condolences mate, but he's not struggling anymore, he's not in pain any more and he'll always live on in your memories.
     
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    Really sorry to hear about your loss mate, thoughts are with you and your family,
     
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    Take care of yourselves in these difficult times.
    Love from the Badgers.
     
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    Love that story mate...condolences on the loss of your Dad....
     
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    So sorry to hear that mate. Condolences to you
    and the family.
     
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    Sorry for your loss and condolences to your family.
    Sounds like you have some wonderful memories.
     
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    Sorry to read that news Tyke_67 - thinking of you and your family.
     
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    North Yorks Red Well-Known Member

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    Sorry for your loss mate, condolences to you and your family.
    Sounds like a top bloke (
     

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