O/T Single again now.

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    Stephen Dawson Well-Known Member

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    Me and Laura split up. It's finally official. CSA claim went in today and I'm not allowed to see George until she receives the first payment.

    I can collect my stuff and medication from the house and she'll make sure she's out with him.

    I could go to court for access but I haven't got the time or the money. Life's a bitch.
     
    Stephen Dawson, May 23, 2023
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    Hang in there pal, things will get better and you'll soon have plenty of contact with George
     
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    Sorry to read. Onwards and upwards. It will be a tough struggle at times but hang in there and make sure you keep talking.
     
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    Sorry to hear that. Just make sure you do everything you can to stay in George’s life. It’s the way to avoid regrets and when he’s old enough to understand you’ll always be able to say that you did your best.
     
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    Unfortunately it would just be posturing at the minute because she doesn't have to allow me access to the house. It's in her name and has refused to do watsapp messages. I've kept all the txts. Still digesting the break up to be honest. It'll all come out in the wash.
     
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    So sorry to hear that mate, keep your chin up, there always a brand new day on the horizon
     
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    Don't agree anything verbal.

    Email, text or whatever means. Everything in black and white.
     
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    Cheers mate. It's hard. Works keeping my mind off it. It's shocking after work though. It hit me last night at bedtime. Alone in my bed. I'd gotten used to being alone in bed or on the sofa but it still hits you.
     
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    Hang in there, been there myself. Things will hopefully get easier once the dust settles a bit.
     
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    Sorry buddy but if a woman isn’t letting a dad see his kid (and so isn’t allowing the kid to see his dad) until she’s gets a ******* csa payment it isn’t life that’s the bitch
     
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    Chin up fella. In my experience access becomes more available as time passes, though women who use access to children as a weapon in a break up are awful.
     
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    So sorry to hear Stephen… I’m sure you’ll always remember that your lad is priority number one.
    Stay strong
     
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    She wanted 300 this Friday and she'd have let me see him this weekend. Then threatened to drive through to my parents in Pontefract and drop him off because she didn't have the money to look after him. Then when I said I still wanted to go through the CSA threatened to kill herself. I've told her I've kept the txts with her bribing me.
     
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    So sorry to hear this sad news mate. It’s never easy breaking up, even more difficult when children are involved. Whilst it will seem very difficult to comprehend at the moment, time is a great healer and you have loads of people on this site who are always happy to listen if needed.
     
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    Sad to hear.

    Let’s hope things soon take a turn for the better.

    Try not to argue and try to appear reasonable no matter what.
     
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    Cheers mate. Still in shock it's over. She couldn't stand it that I didn't like her going out every Saturday with her mother until half four in the morning. It started out just once a month but then it got to be every weekend and then not coming home at all. Then she started going up to house parties at her cousins while 2 in the morning on work nights. She said I had trust issues and was being unreasonable. I asked if she could a babysitter so we could go out together but she said going out with me wasn't the same and wouldn't entertain it. Then this Sunday she came in and got a shower. Just asking her about her night prompted a row and rest is history.
     
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    Chin up pal. Hopefully things will pick up!
     
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    Ay least you'll be able to get just one of the single tickets in a middle block now.
     
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    Sorry for that mate - take care and look after yourself.
     
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    Mate, I am so sorry to hear that. I know from past experience that your mind wanders all over the place at times like this, but you will come out the other side stronger.
     
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