O/T Single again now.

Any messier than it seems to be getting?
Nah best just let her know you no longer use WhatsApp.[/QUOTE]
Haven't got time for WhatsApp out enjoying your new life --‐-

 

I came off Facebook when i split up 10 years ago and never missed it,didn't need that $---t.

 

Know what you’re saying. Facebook can at times be toxic. I use it and my ignore list is quite long.
I’m quite particular who’s conversations i want to follow

 

You need to think about George. The best outcome for him would be for his parents to at least be civil to each other and to put his interests first. You can't control what Laura says or does but you can control what you say and do @Stephen Dawson . Concentrate on being the best Dad you can be, that's in your hands.

 

Good advice Helen. Stephen also needs to think about himself. Maintaining his dignity and staying true to himself is everything. All of this silliness will pass. Playing games, or trying to play her at her own game won't work, because Stephen will still be emotionally invested. I dare say that it all playing out on here won't help either, because it will become like a soap opera and Stephen will become more fixated on what she is doing, and compare to what he's doing, and the noise from others. It's best to give it time and as i say stay true to self. And focus on George and being a dad.

And good advice from Ian, get rid of WhatsApp. Duties as a father shouldn't be dictated or justified (by the mother i.e. 'well you see him on WhatsApp every week) through a screen. Quality one on one time needed, and the father absolutely has a right to that.

Go well Stephen.

 

Excellent advice Helen- love it.

 

Good luck with everything pal. If you need someone’s ear to bend, drop me a message.