Good girl?

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  1. Gegenpresser

    Gegenpresser Well-Known Member

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    Some people might find that your need to express yourself in terms of profanities equally as gross.

    Perhaps swearing is the new sexism. Or sexism is the new swearing.
     
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    Abruzzo Red Well-Known Member

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    I would find it patronising and wouldn’t expect anyone to say that to me. I absolutely hate being called love or duck by people, unfortunately as I lived in Lincolnshire for a long time it happened constantly.
     
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    I wouldn’t do it in a professional capacity though. He was being interviewed on tv.
     
  4. ronnieGlavinsB@stardSon

    ronnieGlavinsB@stardSon Well-Known Member

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    I don't think Brendon Rogers is a particularly nice person and I think he comes across as arrogant and entltied. His response to the reporter is at best patronising and was at worst casual sexism. He's put the reporter in an unwanted position when they were only doing what they were employed to do. What he said was wrong and he should be held to account for it.
     
  5. WG Red

    WG Red Well-Known Member

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    Held to account?.......Hang him high!!
     
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    Well I have my own views on everything really. They don't change irrespective of where I am and whoever is watching.
     
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    honestly thinking we cannot say anything to anyone anymore without risk of offending someone
    i was in a petrol station with an old boss around 20yrs back, we filled up there all the time, mostly serving was a person going through the change but was now more to the reversal to what we knew, they gave him a free car wash token and boss said "top (sex they were changing against)" i dare not even specify what sex in that!
    if you understand that then you realise how ****** up our language and traits have become over the years,
    thankfully i work with quite a few women who are old skool, even the young women and take and give banter and give it back some in the good faith/humour meant with absolutely no offence meant
    it's not folk being offensive it's just our nature which is now deemed offensive by some
     
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    ronnieGlavinsB@stardSon Well-Known Member

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    Oh God nothing as dramatic as death but I think a public castration would be sufficient :rolleyes:
     
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    As I say, the opposite of girl is boy. And the only time I can think of where I've heard that is white Americans mainly in southern states speaking to black men. And it made me feel very uncomfortable, it was belittling.
     
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    No, just point out his short comings which is what's happened.
     
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    So did you tell em. Where do you live now.? cos I'm guessing you haven't escaped it unless moved south of the place.
    A relative of mine has decided her baby is Binary. Can I s41t stop saying isn't she lovely. Much prefer it to "it"
    I'd call her by her name but I'd invariably get it wrong. S41T memory. I've umpteen nieces and great nieces.
     
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    Mary poppins now PG. its got to stop somewhere soon
     
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    What if he had said lass. Do you think for one minute there still wouldn't be repercussions from the pc community ?. I honestly do. Lad wouldn't..
     
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    I like that word … umpteen I mean
     
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    Yes I did tell them, but if I was in a chippy or supermarket then it would just fall on deaf ears and wouldn’t stop it happening again at a later date. I live in Italy now so not an issue.
     
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    I don't think he'd give said good lad, that's the whole point.
     
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    Quite a common referral Helen. In our mens world.
     
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    If someone was offended and asked me to stop then I would, however it's no dafter exaggeration that the hullabaloo that this quote has created.
     
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    People are dying in Palestinian
    People are dying in Ukraine

    And we're having a debate about this.......really
     
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    Valid point. A family had chemicals thrown over them the other week in London and the horrible lovely people on here discussed football at the weekend
     
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