Mental Health Support

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  1. JLWBigLil

    JLWBigLil Well-Known Member

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    I hope you have a change of heart, Stuart, and continue to post on here. However, if this is to be your last post, allow me to wish you well for the future and to thank you for your positive contributions to this board.
    All the best, old mate.
    Kev
     
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  2. Redhelen

    Redhelen Well-Known Member

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    Au revoir Stuart, the board will still be here when/if you want to come back. Moat important thing is taking varese of yourself and family.
     
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    Egham Tyke Well-Known Member

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    Strangely enough I find this board a release rather than the other way round. My partner of 33 years has been diagnosed with moderately severe dementia and I'm still coming to terms with it. Haven't posted much on here of late as I've been sorting out support for us but have been having a lurk
    Typical she has mixed dementia , Alzheimers and vascular so it has seen a quite sharp decoration in the last 3 months. Gutted that we've let a 2 goal lead slip tonight but there are more important things in the world, just look at Gaza, Ukraine and people struggling in this country
    Hope you reconsider mate, Bob Hoskins was right, it's good to talk, as I've found out when I've explained to people we know
     
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    This should build up confidence at a vital time.
     
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    Think I need a time out again. Sometimes this forum is a great place then other times one or two individuals make it difficult. Not enjoying it at the moment when the only reason I use it is as a release from the stresses of every day life.
     
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  9. JLWBigLil

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    I, for one, thoroughly enjoy reading your excellent posts and hope you continue with them when you're able.
     
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    I get it mate. I myself have found it a bit wearisome on here recently. Same few people hijacking most threads saying the same things over and over again.

    Nothing wrong with a time out. I’m looking forward to season starting, get them first couple of wins in the board and they’ll crawl back under their rocks and it’ll be more pleasant on here again.

    I’m all for debate and was glass half empty myself under Collins. But a conversation with some on here is impossible.

    Anyway I digress! I hope things are going better in the real world and I hope to see loads of you here in the future!
     
  11. sol

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    Hi
    Ive been an arse on main thread and im so sorry
    truth is im suffering from PTSD something happend long ago which im only just coming to terms with, its basically ruined my life, i hate myself most days
     
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    Hope you have someone to talk to about the PTSD. If not, please see your Gp.
     
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    Hi solarized.

    It’s a good thing you have reached out. People are generally quite forgiving and wish the best for everyone.

    Has your PTSD been properly diagnosed? Are you getting treatment? Obviously you only need to tell us what you want us to know but my door is always open and I’m sure many other BBSers will feel the same. You’re welcome to message me privately if you’re more comfortable doing that.

    PTSD isn’t something I know a great deal about admittedly. But more than happy to help if you need a vent or a fresh pair of ears!
     
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    Ive been diaognised by my GP, it stems from a childhood trauma which 40 years on im only just able to talk about
     
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    Wishing you all the best mate.
     
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    You’ve done the right thing seeking help,good luck
     
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