There is a young apprentice at our works who has a dilema. He has been going out with a girl for a couple of years and likes her alot, but he has also found another young filly whom he likes just as much. Both girls are about the same age and he can't decide what to do, have any of you got any advice we can pass on to him ? (doh)
tell him to enjoy seeing both getting what he can from them.. dump them before christmas save himself money on the presents,. then find a new lass in the new year..
I'd add to that. Just before the dumping bit, propose a bit of consenting adult fun that involves all three of you. If it's a no, the carry on with the dump.
He must make his own mind up but if he likes another girl and wants to go out with her he must finish with his girlfriend before going out with the other one.
RE: I'd add to that. You never know, they both might accept the existence of the other one on the scene and both may be up for the threesome on a regular basis. End of dilemma
Now that is a dilema. Many years ago as a 17 year old with testosterone pumping through my veins, I found myself in a similar situation. The girl I was going out with went on holiday for 2 weeks, and the Saturday she went I was introduced, at Oakwell, to a drop dead gorgeous lass from Ward Green. It was Barnsley Feast week and every night Ward Green lass and I went to the fair. I still look back and think how great it was to go out with Ward Green lass. All my mates were green with envy (No Pun intended). She was lovely. We were together about 4 weeks until number one girlfriend found out and greated me in Barnsley Bus Station with the immortal words " You two timing Dog". I had been found out! Both of them wanted me to pack the other in. But being young and stupid I hesitated and finished up losing them both. But it was Ward Green lass I really wanted to be with but she was gone. Sob,Sob. Five months after this I heard that ex-girlfriend number one wanted to see me again. I had just split up with my latest flame, and thought why not. I arranged to meet the ex and we finished up on a bench in a local park. During a snoggy, snoggy, groping session she suddenly jumped up and said " no one can touch me except ?????". This guy ????? was a 26 year old married man who she baby sat for. So whilst I had been two timing her she had been doing the same with a married man. My advice to your friend would be to dump the girl who does any baby sitting! ff ff (heart) (heart) (heart) (heart)