Bank! Bank!! Baaaaank! (Sorry, private joke). There are a few decent bars and stuff near the ice rink on the main city square. That'd be a good place to start
The Dragon off Market Square does good food It's only a small place, and not been in the evening, but might be worth a try. There are a few other places round there, your typical chain places like Fat Cats, Ask, etc which are Ok too.
Las Iguanas Alternatively walk across the main square, keeping the hall to your right - up there there's a few decent bars/eateries for a quiet rendezvous.
Just the waiter? or anyone in the general vicinity? I'm thinking it's ok to shout & spout hatred towards women & kids, yes? What with them being in Nottingham of all places. (dunno)