A mate of mine's elderly Mum is in that one on Dodworth Road. Can't remember the name of it but she seems happy there & he's impressed with the level of care she receives.
Water Royd House, Locke Road, Gilroyd. Recently relocated to new building. V. nice facilty. My nan was happy there for several years.
Not in in Tarn but................................................... Valley Park in Wombwell is very good. My Mum in Law was a resident there for 3 years before she died. The nursing care Mum recieved when she was very ill was excellent.The staff were very good. They also have a good entertainment programme including days out and trips to the coast. I suggest you visit a home and talk to the staff and some of the residents to get a general idea of how good the home is. A good home would encourage you visit and put your mind at rest.
Chapel View Care Home, Mapplewell I work there as head cook. its a very friendly and homely. Some places get too big and impersonal.Look on the website, http://www.fshc.co.uk/residential/descriptions.asp?centreID=222§ion=elderly&county=yorkshire If you get in touch with the manager you will be able to take a look around and see for your self. I used to work for a large nursing home and it became more like a hotel than someone's home. which after all it is supposed to be their home for as long as they need it to be. Good luck.