Is it possible to enjoy the actual game? The only way I can see it, is if we are 3-0 up in the first 5 minutes. </p> It was the same for the play off final at Cardiff. Don't get me wrong I had a fantastic weekend before and after the actual game. But the 90 minutes we were playing was torture. The pressure knowing the whole season depended on that 90 minutes. I found it very hard to enjoy the actual game. And the missus said I was a right miserable git, and she daren't talk to me for the whole game. It looks like more of the same for her at wembley. </p>
It wont been nice everytime Cardiff attack your arse twitching like a rabbits nose!!! Think thats going to be bad just wait till the Final!!!!!!!!!!!
I disagree The semi is going to be worse than the final. If we get to the final we are part of the history books forever. When you look at the list of finals we'll be up there with the best of them. We'll have the big day and it will be fantastic to actually be a part of a game that we never in a million years dreamed we could be. And we'll be the underdogs too, so the pressure won't be on us. Whereas losing a semi-final to a team that we are more than capable of beating would be heartbreak. I originally thought that just being at Wembley and being part of the story of this year's competition would amply make up for losing. But it wouldn't. Especially with the Ridsdale involvement too. I have nothing against Cardiff as a club, but losing will have him gloating and will justify, in his mind, nearly taking his third team to the wall. No, I can't stand the thought of losing the semi. I am actually almost physically sick every time I think of it and I know that I'm only going to enjoy the game in retrospect. And even then only if we win. Although if we're three goals up with ten or fifteen minutes left I may calm down a bit. I actually would like to know now how we get on. If I had a way of knowing I'd take it and foresake the excitement of the actual game. I've even worked myself into a bit of a frenzy just typing this. I think I need a lie down. When I signed up to be lifelong Barnsley obsessed nutter 30-odd years ago, I dreamed of making the top flight, I dreamed of beating Liverpool and Man United and my club has granted me those dreams. but I've only seriously dreamed of us winning the FA Cup for 5 days now. And I don't think I can handle it. How on earth am I going to make it until the 6th April????
That last line </p> Puts all this in perspective. Its balmy. non of it makes sense, and its happening. And, we really do have to get to the final after this run. anything else will be unbearable. Worse than losing a playoff final.</p> Its as big as the Bradford game, if not bigger. We can get to the prem againin most ofour lifetimes,but winning the FA Cup- probably not. Except in 2008.</p> Can't quite take it in</p>
RE: I disagree I feel sick just reading your post about it, you are dead right, i had my head in my hands and not even watching the last 3 minutes of extra time against Chelsea. My God what pain and heart ache and stress this great little club puts it's fans under. Calm nerves at Wembley ,your having a laugh.
RE: That last line It's little Isabel I feel sorry for. She's going to think it's like this all the time! The worst thing is, I see Wembley Stadium every time I come home. Just saw it now as I got off the bus and started panicking again. I don't know if anyone has realised this yet, but if we win, we get to gloat at our last league game of the season. If we dare, that is...
Hope im better than at Cardiff moved from my seat after 10mins because i was getting claustrophobic and i don't even suffer from it, with that roof closed and all them tykes,plus my scarf tied around my neck i could hardly breath. I went and stood at the side,you know where the seats under the above tier were,half empty,just paced up and down like a mad man,when Hayesy scored i ran down a row and tried jumping a row,caught my leg and smashed my knee and wrist on concrete,if it wasn't for the booze i think i may have fainted. I returned to my seat with my fellow Swinton Reds for the penalties,and even then the whole occasion got the better of me,as Tate missed i turned around to the family behind screaming "Score this and we win" not realising we had WON and the players were running around like mad men!!! Spent the whole of Saturday night hobbling around Cardiff city centre in a denim jacket that didn't fit me,i borrowed it off my brothers mate you see coz i wasn't supposed to stay down night,but thought sod it Oh if Wembley has the same result i'll go through the pain barrier again
This game will be a nightmare to watch Really enjoyed the Liverpool game never thought we would win - though a draw would have been a great result I thought we would get turned over at home like last time so even if Liverpool had scored in the last 10 mins I would have been sad but we had put up a great performance and I would have been pleased for the way the players tried. Howie scored too late for Liverpool to respond so the perfect game really Didnt enjoy the Chelsea game as much - (well I did when I watched it again but...) first half was OK - we were the better team feared embarrassment clearly wasn't going to happen but once we scored I suddenly knew we could actually win it was there to lose, something that never happened in the Liverpool game, that last 25 mins were the longest of my life so far, I didnt know what to do with myself - kept watching hours of play only to look at the clock and see it had moved 30 seconds, I was composing myself for the inevitable equaliser. Only when the whistle went did the sheer total unbounded incredible joy set in. I cant believe you can get that much of a high any other way than to watch a game like that, The semi v cardiff - we can win, no one will be surprised if we do, 2 evenly matched sides just below half away in the league - less than 1 win seperates them on points, its there to lose for the whole 90 mins, baring a completely unexpected 4-0 lead by half time the game will be a agony - especially whilst the scores are level or only one goal in it. People say to lose an FA cup semifinal is one of the worst experiences in football, I just hope we dont find out. Extra time and pens anyone