Life is difficult

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  1. John Peachy

    John Peachy Well-Known Member

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    #1 John Peachy, Dec 24, 2013
    I'm in love with a mate's ex wife & she is the best mate of my ex of 12 years

    She is leaving the country in February to go back to the States

    Complicated is Peachy's life...
     
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    #2 TheFlash, Dec 24, 2013
    I'm not sure this is the best place for counselling.

    Anyway, do you fancy us to beat Bolton on Boxing Day?
     
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    #3 Luke, Dec 24, 2013
    I don't know if you're looking for advice, but I would recommend leaving well alone. It's not worth the hassle it would cause.
     
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    #4 barnsley66, Dec 24, 2013
    Also Life's too short.

    Go for it.
     
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    #5 Kev b, Dec 24, 2013
    Re: Also Life's too short.

    Life's too short to be living with regrets, I would suggest that you seize every opportunity. if it doesn't work out at least you know it wasn't mean't to be , but if it does, then well...

    (enough on me been sensible)
     
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    #6 judith charmers, Dec 24, 2013
    Re: Also Life's too short.

    Sometimes in life you can't help who you fall in love with regardless of the possible outcomes!!!

    If your upfront with people who it may affect then what more can you do. Your a long time dead mate so enjoy your life and be happy while your here.
     
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    #7 Jimmy viz, Dec 24, 2013
    What would Johnny do?

    http://youtu.be/pALSKcWcVEk
     
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    #8 Sooty9, Dec 24, 2013

    First of all how does she feel about you??????
     
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    #9 I'm Spartacus, Dec 24, 2013
    Get hammered and shag the brains out of owt female, with a pulse.

    Hope this helps.
     
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    #10 StaincrossRed, Dec 24, 2013
    Sounds like a chick flick film this
     
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    #11 springvale red, Dec 24, 2013
    Go for it Peachey, if you really want her make her yours. Nowt to do with the other 2
     
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    #12 Johnny the tyke, Dec 24, 2013
    Ask her what she thinks team should be on Boxing Day with Mellis & Tudgay banned.?

    I'd go

    butland

    Wiseman, Crainie, Ramage, Nayatanga

    O'Brien, Hassle, Perkins, Cwyka

    Pedersen & Scotland
     
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    #13 Christchurchtyke, Dec 24, 2013
    As mentioned by sooty9 above, first step would be to find out the ladies feelings for you.

    I would rather risk a disappointment rather than miss out on an opportunity.
     
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    #14 jedi one, Dec 24, 2013
    shroedingers cat mate, shroedingers cat
     
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    #15 JLWBigLil, Dec 24, 2013
    Excellent advice, mate

    Just surprised it's come from Howard Wolowitz!:D
     
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    #16 Jay, Dec 24, 2013
    He could lock her in a box with a flask of poison and philosophise on whether she is dead or alive, but I'm not sure what good it would do in this situation. Pass a bit of time on I suppose, if there's nowt on telly.
     
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    #17 Mr C, Dec 24, 2013
    Re: Excellent advice, mate

    Actually Sheldon's advice to Penny, just watched that one on dvd!! :)

    As for the Peachy conundrum, I envisage a Friends style airport dash!! :)
     
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    #18 John Peachy, Dec 24, 2013
    Thx for the advice. Particularly like the schrödinger's cat one, but think that may be a little drastic.

    She did say I look like Sean Penn in Dead Man Walking … fairly sure that means she likes me.

    She's about in Leeds for a few days so who knows!

    Will be off to the Bolton match regardless! (Can't make Derby, as I have a gig in manchester).
     
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    #19 Mr C, Dec 24, 2013
    I always thought it must be a very substantial box not to hear a live cat or smell a dead one. Poor fecker would have starved to death before too long anyway. Crap philosophy all round really. :)
     
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    #20 John Peachy, Dec 24, 2013
    I suppose it is.

    It is a rather splendid forum that discusses quantum mechanics as a solution to one's love life & one I'm proud to be a member of!
     
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