Poet's Guide To Pulling (Part 1)

(Part 1) Pulling Girls During The Day

Hope you enjoy it guys.

The main problem with Daygame and approaching sets on the street is making the set stick, holding court with a group you just approached in the mall or on the street is hard - because during the day, most people are on their way 'somewhere', be that work, school, anywhere - and anyone that tries to get in their way is usually frowned upon. For moving targets you have to stop them and slowly move your body so that you turn them around from the way that they were going initially, this complelely alters their thinking and gets them focussing on yourself. Ok - imagine your heading for a meeting at work thats due to start at 10am. You have 25 minutes to get there, then suddenly some random guy comes upto you and starts talking about something that can 'supposeddly' change your life. Of course, he's probably trying to sell you something but the way in which he presents himself can change your outlook dramatically.

The thing is - people dont like to be disturbed when they are concentrating on something or heading somewhere, if you could somehow change their course - their subconcious will change also.

So if you approach a woman on the street who is obviously going somewhere (which she will be) you have to take her off course. While in conversation with her, slowly and subtley change the way your body is facing, move around her slowly as you speak but not so its noticeable - make it blend into the conversation. This is good for two reasons, the first being the before mentioned subconcious mind alteration - of her being taken off focus of her path. The second being that it is a good gauge of her interest, if you turn - she will have to turn also to be facing you, if she does - then she's interested and also off course subconciously.

So remember - while you talk, slowly and subtley move around her to get her facing in the opposite direction, or you can just move over to somewhere less crowded - ie a shopside window or by one of those rails in the upper tier of a mall. Then just sarge the pants off her...

For day sarging, direct game is probably the best - just last Friday i opened a girl with:

'Hey do you have a boyfriend?

Girl: No

'Well, i saw you walking and thought you were gorgeous, it'd be great if we could exchange numbers'

Girl: ok

It can be that easy, but bear in mind - just asking for someones number and getting it dosnt mean the games won - you have to generate rapport and establish somekind of connection to really allow her to get to want to know you better, ie the followup - date etc.

Specifically, there's five types of openers for conversations (IMO): Genuine interest, implicit direct, situational indirect, true indirect, nonverbal/playful.

You want to use mostly the first two kinds. Genuine interest openers are non-cliche openers that express interest in something you genuinely like about her. A default format for one that always sounds spontaneous is:

"I saw you (doing what you're doing) and I have to say (what you noticed and like about her look)."

It's a really, really easy formula, but ALWAYS sounds spontaneous and uncanned, never like a pickup line. Fill in the first blank with her activity.

"I saw you standing here and...
"I saw you sitting here and...
"I saw you as you were walking by and...
"I saw you leaning up against the bar and...

Fill in the second blank about what you like about her.

...I have to say you have the prettiest hair I've ever seen."
...I have to say you have a really cool funky style that I dig."
...I have to say you look fantastic."
...I have to say you have the most *dangerous* walk I've ever seen on a girl."

Whatever you think. You can even find one compliment that you really like and always fill in the second blank with that.

"I saw you (doing what you're doing) and I have to say you look really beautiful."

Always possess a strong frame, smile, make sure your body language is top notch and DONT allow rejections to get the better of you - you will get rejected more times than you will get accepted - thats a fact, just turn around and be proud that you had the ballz to approach - then go approach someone else.

Always control the meta-frame of the conversation, that being:

1. That you are the prize to be won
2. The girl would love having sex with you
3. The girl is getting value from your interaction

I dont have a set plan, the hardest part is the opener - once you are talking then its fairly easy, vibing is the biggest key you can use. With everything a girl says - she gives you a wealth of topics in which to direct the conversation, aswell as all the things around you which you can use for conversational fodder and ultimately directing the conversation towards sex:

Imagine a girl said this:

'Ohh i went to a party last night, i got real drunk and danced like crazy with all my friends, i also kinda kissed one of them for fun'

The topics would be...

1. Parties
2. What you did last night
3. Getting drunk
4. Dancing
5. Her Friends
6. Kissing/Lesbians

Of course not everything she says will be this topic rich - so you can ask Set Up questions if you get stuck:

1. What do you do for fun? Ok, ideally - what would you like to do for fun?
2. Where do you go to school? Where do you work? How does that make you feel?

etc - just to get the convo going again, then vibe once more!

In daytime situations, girls guards are a lot lower than they would be at clubs/parties etc - they ARENT expecting to get hit on walking through the mall so when it DOES happen, they are SURPRISED, thats why you might sometimes get a coldish reaction from her - but allow your body language and projection warm her up and slowly get her to enjoy your interaction.

The key to the street pick-up close is not what close you use but how
you do it.

It has to be performed like it just popped into your head. And always
on a peak.

After you say something funny, before the laugh totally is gone say,
"Hey, this might be wacky, but let's go around the corner and get an
ice-cream. I love strawberry cheese cake. What's your favorite flavor?"
Here are some more tips:

1. Introduce yourself as soon as you are in. Sooner than in a club
situation cause nobody likes to talk to a 'stranger' on the street.

2. Let her know what you are up to. "Somebody told me there was a good
dry-cleaner around here. You know its a good party when you get your
best pair of wool pants soaked with red wine."

3. Be real casual. And keep your guard down. This will help her relax.
You got to be real comfortable with yourself.

4. If you are going to Neg on opening make sure you have a smile to
compensate.

5. You got to get in a playful rhythm. If you can achieve the proper
vibe you can be unstoppable on the street.

I remember this one pick-up I did. I was walking down the sidewalk.
Sunny beautiful day and this Jaguar pulls up to a meter and this very
good looking lady steps. I say, "You know you can't park there." She
stops before dropping coins in the machine, "Oh really, why?" I say,
"Cause I said so." She calls me a **** - in a sisterly way. That is
when the rythim was right. I said, "Where you going?" She said this
place up the street. I said, "I'll walk with you." That was it, done
deal.

The same goes for girls at school/college - you straight away have something in common, ie the school you are at, the classes you are in - its only hard if you make it hard, just ENJOY THE INTERACTIONS and HAVE FUN!

If you want something bad enough, you will get it - if you want a can of Soda from the fridge -do you overanalyse for 20 mins about how your going to get to the fridge? Or how your going to take it from the fridge? How you are going to open it? How you are going to drink it? NO! HELL NO! You just DO it because its natural, allow pick up to be ENTIRELY the same!!!

Nothing bad can come from talking to girls, harmless little girls - the worst they can do is say 'F**K off'...no biggie - call that a success, you just weeded one more undeserving beotch out of your pathway for 'The One'...

Good Luck guys

Any questions - ask away!

Up The Reds!!