Question for you married/ folks with partners

Discussion in 'Bulletin Board ARCHIVE' started by shawy, Oct 11, 2008.

  1. sha

    shawy Guest

    Help sortan argument...
    Rmember that Harry Meets Sally Film & the fella in it says Men can't be friends with women cos the sex bit always gets in the way ..
    Welll who thinks men can be just friends with lasses or do you still contemplate sex regardless ... and is it the same t'other way round?
     
  2. Gue

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    well I do

    I have a good many friends who are girlies, and are purely friends.
     
  3. sha

    shawy Guest

    RE: well I do

    yes but even if they are really jsut friends ... you must have contemplated it maybe?
     
  4. Googs

    Googs Well-Known Member

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    Depends if I fancy them as well or not. Although I know a few who I really fancy, i'm still more than happy to be a friend more than nothing at all. If I don't fancy them it's not a problem, obviously.
     
  5. Ali

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    Perfectly possible

    even if you both fancy the arse off each other.

    Just cos you wonder what it would be like you dont have to try to find out.

    Why spoil being friends?
     
  6. sha

    shawy Guest

    Women

    I was with last night said that they could be friends, but the fellas said that even if they were mates with a lass they'd still thought about having sex with em
     
  7. Ady

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    Well

    I have many ladies as mates, been with some of them (cough) but i'm still mates with them, and my now missus is cool with that, as she says its the past, we are the future!.
     
  8. Ali

    Alityke Active Member

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    As a woman

    you think but tend not to think about actually doing
     
  9. Gue

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    RE: well I do

    well of course you see the attractiveness of the lady, you would not be human if not. But thats all, never have I wanted to stray. Guess I am very very lucky in as much that my Lady is everything and in every department that I ever ask, yes we have a row now and again. It would be freakish if not. but its nearly always a storm in a tea cup. Of course I look at lovely girls as they walk about in summer in tight tee shirts and think Phwoarr "I would"..but nowt wrong wi lookin at a menu when you are on a diet. But again I can honestly say I have many Lady friends who are just that...FRIENDS...and very good friends too, and to make a pass would destroy that and my marriage too. ANDI value them both wayyyy too much for that.
     
  10. fir

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    I'd be alarmed if

    I thought blokes contemplated having sex with a female friend regardless of their appeal (or lack of it).

    I have friends who (I admit) I have given a quick thought about BUT I have loads more male friends and it would be the last thing on my mind... urghhh.
     

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