Sorted (unfortunately I didn't write it). When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in > a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 glasses of > wine theory... > > A professor stood before his philosophy class with some items on his desk > in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very > large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. > > He then asked the students if the jar was full. > They agreed that it was. > > The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the > jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas > between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was > full. > They agreed it was. > > The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of > course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar > was full. > The students responded with a unanimous 'YES.' > > The professor then produced two glasses of wine from under the table and > poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty > space between the sand. The students laughed. > > 'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to > recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the > important things; your family, your children, your health, your friends, > and your favorite passions; things that if everything else was lost and > only they remained, your life would still be full. > > The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, > and your car. > The sand is everything else; the small stuff. > > If you put the sand into the jar first', he continued, 'there is no room > for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend > all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for > the good things that are important to you. > > Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with > your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to > dinner. Play another 18 holes. Do one more run down the ski slope. There > will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of > the golf balls first; the things that really matter. Set your priorities.. > The rest is just sand.' > > One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the wine > represented. > > The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that > no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of > glasses of wine with a friend.' >