Well I feel like the worlds against me...

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  1. Kev b

    Kev b Well-Known Member

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    And now it's getting harder.
    Lost my dad late last year, my son broke his arm (twice) I had to have a major op
    And now to add to it all my mum had been told she's got the "C" word.

    All this in 6 months bloody hell guys it's hard
     
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    Sorry to hear that mate. Lost a relative to that terrible disease not long back myself. I know it's been said countless times, but it's things like that which put footy into its proper place. Honestly, you will get through it, and will come out the other side stronger. A cliche again, but it is true.
     
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    So sorry to hear your news, mate

    I hope your Mum's treatment over the coming months proves to be successful and beats this horrible, vile illness.
    You're right, life is really **** at times. I hope good times are just round the corner for you and your family. You certainly deserve it.
    All the best, mate.
    Kev, Crystal & family.
     
  4. Kev b

    Kev b Well-Known Member

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    Cheers guys, thanks for the kind words off support

    Kev
     
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    Kev b Well-Known Member

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    Can I just say people if you ever have to go for any routine test, please go for your own, family and friends sake.
    It could just save your life.
    My mum couldn't / can't feel anything but was picked up on a mammogram on a routine appointment.
     
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    Best wishes to your Mum, mate. Life does that to you sometimes. Hopefully you've had your share of pain now, your Mum recovers well and happier times are ahead. :)
     
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    Kev b Well-Known Member

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    Thanks Mr C. I see better days have to come
     
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    Sorry to hear of your bad run Kevin when your on a downer mate it takes a lot to get out of it, but you will. Try setting up things you want to do or where to go a week or two before you go, and it gives you a bit of light to look forward to. Be positive Kevin and dig in. Good luck mate
     
  9. Whi

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    Stay strong my friend.

    I lost my mother as a young lad to that evil disease, but I know she looks down on me, and I honestly believe she's the little voice that guides me in the right direction.

    Life tests you, IMO. But with your own inner strength, your family and friends beside you, and perhaps a belief in 'something', you can beat anything.

    STAY strong buddy.
     
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    Kev b Well-Known Member

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    Cheers guys, the support on here is great and I thank each and everyone
     
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    My first post on here, and it is to say that my thoughts are with you, Kev, and your Mum and family. I sincerely hope you all pull through this.

    In the last 12 months I have lost my sister in law aged 42 and, only last month, my Dad. My father has also been diagnosed with motor neurone disease, for which there is no cure. He has already lost the use of both arms.

    So I know what you're going through, Kev. Be strong, mate!
     
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    Sorry, that should have read my father in law has motor neurone disease.
     
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    You can get through this Kev and so can your mum.
     
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    so sorry for you mate hope you overcome your family hardshipos and things look up for you, my prayers will be for you and your family
     
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    thanks again all, i know i am not alone and many people go through, but again thanks to all.

    cambstyke sorry to hear about your family too, it's bloody hard.
     
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    Thanks, Kev!
     
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    My Heart and prayers go out to you Sir,Sincerely

    I have lost both my parents and know how dark the world can seem at times like this.Wounds of this nature do not totally heal yet they get easier to bear over time.Be brave fella.Right now Mum needs you to be strong for her, I am certain you can step up to the plate here.Again my sincerest best wishes and prayers are yours, as will be the case from all on here.

    good luck

    Baz
     
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    Sorry to Hear about this Kev B, It is hard to face up to it and it is never easy, but you have to remain strong for them, All the Best and Good wishes
     
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    Hope you mum gets well soon am sure she will a good mate of mine has just won this battle against the vile illness. keep strong Kev
     
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    sorry to hear kev and tell and wish your mum all the best.

    My mother in law hear in the USA went for her routine mamagram and they found cancer too, she had the lump removed and a month of chemo,all this before her daughter and i got married in september.

    its been 8 months now she is fantastic and all is fine, your mum will be in good hands and will be great kev just wait and see.

    My new father in law had to have a leg amputated at the age of 80 hes now 83 and apart from being in the first stages of dementure hes fantastic.
    I take him to physical therapy 3 times a week and its when your there that you realise theres always someone in a worse position than yourself.
     

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