Struggling

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  1. Redhelen

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    Fingers crossed its just a cold.
     
    Redhelen, Dec 17, 2021
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    Stay strong, JP. Hope you're on the up again soon, mate. We're all with you.
    Love to you and your mum.
     
    Old Goat, Dec 17, 2021
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    Best wishes John Peachy. From what I've read you post I don't think we live far apart so if you need anything, I'm a PM away.
     
    MonkeyRed, Dec 17, 2021
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    John you need to tell them your actual condition, that you’re hardly getting over it and it’s not funny anymore. It would be nice if they said sorry somehow. Anyway you’ll be fine John, you’re a soldier.
    Hope you get some treatment soon, does sound like a secondary infection for which antibiotics are in order. Dr Red-Kendal. P.s. don’t turn on the news.
     
    RedKen-dal, Dec 17, 2021
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    My lad works in Headingley; you helped out with parking advice. You can always offload over a beer with him; he can even afford a round these days!!
     
    Andy Mac, Dec 17, 2021
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    I'll echo everyone else's warm posts towards JP.

    I've been feeling crap all week. Head cold. Done negative Covid Tests all week. Gone onto my chest now. Messaged my supervisor to say it was working onto my throat and larynx and she sent me an e-mail reminding me I had to go until June without any time off or move to a stage 2 formal meeting.
     
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    JP stay strong ... and don't lose your interest in music.
    It keeps body and soul together.
    Here's one for you to be getting on with ........
    Enjoy !
    Love from us all.

     
    Mr Badger, Dec 17, 2021
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    Charming!
     
    Redhelen, Dec 17, 2021
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    I joked to her that I'll come in even if my leg is falling off. I got a stern "that's the idea".
     
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    I'd like to have seen your face!
     
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    England New Zealand starts 2nd June ;)
     
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    I was fuming inside. It's obvious she's developing into a bit of a micro manager.
     
    Stephen Dawson, Dec 17, 2021
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    Joking aside. I've been told "off the record" that the only thing that doesn't effect your Bradford factor is depression. So if you're off ring in with anxiety.
     
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    Crazy thing is that West Stand bogs would be safest place to have a slash atm.
     
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    Thanks everyone for the messages. LGI not willing to give me any treatment without my medical records, so need to see my GP on Tuesday. Having had open heart surgery & a stroke in my 20's they were unwilling to prescribe steroids. I have Chronic Bronchitis, which apparantly is a form of COPD. Hopefully it will get sorted. My life is pretty grim at the minute, but at least got a roof over my head. Will be watching tonight from home. COYRs.
     
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    I don’t know you from Adam old pal, but hope you get well soon
     
    WG Red, Dec 17, 2021
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    Wish I was ******* in the ground. Saw my Mum today. Love her, but she's a ghost. My Dad has Altsimers. Club is run by people I have no affinity with. All my friends don't give a ****. Not bothered any more. No more seaon tickets from me. My Dad, who is 85 and grew up with Norman is not bothered, but his brain is dead. Cancer is horrible. Glad I am gonna drink myself to oblivion.
     
    John Peachy, Dec 20, 2021
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    Ring up the Drs first thing again . Keep going, your parents need you now. Not easy to be positive when you're feeling like crap I know
     
    Redhelen, Dec 20, 2021
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    Your friends on here care, JP. I don’t know your friends in real life but sometimes people keep their distance when they don’t know what to say or how to help. It makes things worse when they do but it’s a natural reaction that I’ve been guilty of too. It didn’t mean I didn’t care, I just felt awkward and didn’t want to say anything wrong. People are busy with other things around Christmas and don’t notice other people’s needs as much. I’m really sorry for your parents’ illnesses, it’s beyond ****. I won’t say be strong for them because you need to be strong for yourself too, because you are important. Everyone experiences tough times but yours seem to be all piling up at once. That makes it a hell of a lot harder to deal with but you have to know that things do get easier. Speak to a professional or one of the wonderful mental health charities in Barnsley and keep posting on here.
     
    JamDrop, Dec 21, 2021
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    You've got to come into work even if you're coughing your guts up over everyone.

    People like that make my piss boil. Take care and get better soon mate
     
    Tyke_67, Dec 21, 2021
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