Today BFC lost a lifelong Red..and I Lost my dad

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  1. Tarntyke

    Tarntyke Well-Known Member

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    86 years old and only stop going to Oakwell in recent seasons due to his failing mobility. A kind, loving generous man. Like many of you on here Dad took me to Oakwell and That was that. Singing Come on you Reds together in the old Brewery stand during the successful Allan Clarke and Norman Hunter eras are the main things that stand out. You could set your clock by us leaving our house in Kendray on a Saturday Afternoon to walk to Oakwell. I’m not religious but if there is a Heaven I know my dear old Mam will be waiting there for him with open arms. I couldn’t be there to hold his hand as he passed, but Know he understood.
    RIP dad
     
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    Sincere condolences, mate. Been there too. :(
     
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    Sorry for your loss ♥️
     
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    Sounds like a top bloke pal No one can take those great memories away. RIP
     
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    So sorry to hear this, sincere condolences to you and yours.
     
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    Sad news indeed. Sincere condolences at this sad time.

    RIP
     
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    Lovely words and memories, sorry you couldn't be with him at the end.
     
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    Condolences mate. When my dad passed away in 2004 (reds supporter from 1936) we bought a brick on the back of the ponty, it would be a fitting tribute for your dad.
     
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    Really sorry to hear the news! That's beautifully written, your dad sounds like he was a great man.
     
  10. Tarntyke

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    He’s already there thanks
     
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    I feel your loss. Almost 39 years since I lost my dad and the pain is still very raw.
    RIP old lad
     
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    my heartfelt condolences to you and yours
     
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    Very sorry to hear that. RIP.

    Clarke / Hunter era was best time I went with my Dad, although he did come during the Premiership season too.
     
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    Sorry for your loss.
    I still tell my Dad how the footy is going in my head and he's been gone since 1994. Your Dad will always be there with you.
     
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    well done, Tarntyke. day by day, lad.
     
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    sincere condolances.
     
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    RIP Tarntyke Sr
     
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    So sorry for your loss mate,condolences to you and yours, i lost my dad in April and i myself had a heart attack last month, life is so precious, RIP to your dad...
     
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    Hope you are recovering well
     
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    Sorry for your loss pal.
     
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