bittersweet for me today.....

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  1. shed131

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    Deepest sympathy Selby condolences to you and all the family.so sorry to hear your sad news.
     
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    Best wishes and condolences to you and yours
     
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    Sincerest condolences. As his spirit passes through the light he will Iive forever in your heart...and he will have been watching that performance today proud as punch.
     
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    I never got the chance to say goodbye to my dad either...I skipped snooker night as I had a 4 month old and he died that night, back in '97 we never got to see a premiership match together.

    Remember all the times you had..all the silly stupid things, that's what matters.

    Take it a day at a time
     
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    I never got the chance to say goodbye to my dad either...I skipped snooker night as I had a 4 month old and he died that night, back in '97 we never got to see a premiership match together.

    Remember all the times you had..all the silly stupid things, that's what matters.

    Take it a day at a time
     
    Barnsleythruandthru, Jan 21, 2017
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    Gally Administrator Staff Member Admin

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    Really sorry to hear that mate. Sincere condolences to you and your family. Stay strong.
     
    Gally, Jan 21, 2017
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    So sad. RIP Selby's dad.

    Condolences to you and your family, mate.
     
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    Really sorry to hear that Selby. Try not to dwell on not knowing they were your last beers with him and instead cherish the memory (easier said than done I know).

    He's probably up there having a good laugh at you for missing the game when he got to sit next to st peter and watch the lot in HD.

    If there's owt i, or anyone else on here, can do then don't hesitate to ask
     
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    Selby, mate, that is very sad to hear.

    Although, after a few minutes, it almost feels uplifting that you had such a beautiful relationship with yer dad. Take it steady, mate.
     
    Michael Noz, Jan 21, 2017
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    Awful fella - feel for you and your family.
     
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    Thank you for the nice message I'm doing my best to read them through tear filled eyes. I've lost not only my dad but my best friend today and it hurts more than I can put into words so thank you all for your kind words......
     
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    Sincere condolences mate, hope you're ok. I know it's hard but try cherish the memories and good times, and try take comfort in the fact you had such a good relationship with your old man - many people don't! Sounds like a top bloke, and I'm sure he'll be smiling at the result tonight.

    This one's for you Selby Snr
     
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    Sorry about your sad loss Selby. Best wishes mate.
     
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    Sorry to hear that mate.

    My thoughts are with you and your family.
     
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    Bless you, how sad. Hope your Dad is smiling down. RIP.
     
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    My condolences to you
     
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    Really sorry to hear it mate. You did right thing in going, team did your dad proud.

    RIP.
     
    John Peachy, Jan 21, 2017
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    Sincere condolences, fellow Red. His last happy moment was having a pint with his lad, take comfort from that if you can.
     
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    I'm sure I will in time.... Thank you
     
    selby, Jan 21, 2017
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    Sincere condolences.
     
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