Any suggestions for a 40 year old man with very few friends who feels lonely?

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  1. Stephen Dawson

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    Does he enjoy spouting and/or reading complete and utter codswallop? Works for me.
     
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    Are you JR Hartley and did you write a book by any chance? :D
     
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    he was very brave to talk to you like that,you must be a kind person to think of helping him too, as the Beatles said" All the lonely people where do they all come from"
     
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    Its going to be hard thats for sure, ive been there myself and ended up turning to booze, ive been sound for last 12yrs wen i met our lass, hes going to have to make things happen,theres plenty to do but if hes feeling sad aswell because hes lonely, makes it even harder, theyll be teams he can join at his local,i.e pool, darts,maybe metal detecting, fishing,like ive said plenty to do,but hes got to make things happen,i got lucky
    been there ended up drinking, he needs a partner,best way for him to meet someone, and i haven't a clue although i met our lass 12yrs ago on a night out.a wa his age at time, being lonely can catch anyone out.good luck to lad its gonna be tough but thankfully hes got someone like you to secretly help him, good on ya mate.
     
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    Does he like wrestling? PM if so :)
     
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    Aren’t ropes a bit thick for fishing?

    I’d have thought line would have been a bit easier to manage on the rod…….
     
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    Not sure if your Freind is in to football or not . But fit reds on Thursday at the indoor acedemt oakwell is fantastic . £5 a week 8:30 to 10pm.

    Ages range from 30 to 60 all abilities and a great set of lads .

    PM if he’s interested
     
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