Can't really argue with that I guess, I think I probably need to reflect on how I address things and whether in sometimes being a bit overzealous about what I think is right I might do more harm than good. I truly believe in equality but I don't want to patronise anyone by thinking they need me to fight all their battles (no matter how minor) for them, which I think is the point your son was getting at. I think I had a valid point that the OP was inappropriate but might have been a **** in the way I pursued it. Soz, if I ever do meet you I'll buy you a pint.
Can I just say that I stand by my comment that Leah Williamson is absolutely stunning. Sadly she actually is in a relationship with a woman so I've got no chance. Because obviously her sexuality is the only reason I've got no chance. It's nothing to do with me being a bit of a ****