Good girl?

"Do you think it was acceptable to call me thick?"

"can you tell me where it was"

"ooh no, that'd be dragging up old coals"

 

You’ve already dragged it up and wrote a whole paragraph on it so can you provide a link, please?

I still don’t know what this has to do with gegenpresser only calling my profanities gross and no one else’s on this thread.

 

I really dont care what you think. The biggest WUM on the BBS. If Jamdrop can't remember. I'll pm her. Not give you fuel to carry on.

 

This thread is like one of them wild west brawls.

Barman ducks as everybody throws glasses, folks swinging air punches and breaking balsa wood chairs over each other’s heads. All because sumdi looked at sumdi else ‘in a funny way.’ Classic BBS.

 

Cheers, I'll remember that and bring it up out of the blue in another thread in a couple of years' time and then refuse to elaborate.

 

It seems to me there's quite a few people here who aren't even trying to look into the context in which Rodgers used "good girl" or even watch the video and they're just crying because it's seemingly another thing the woke left brigade are taking away from good old Britain.

Watch the video, you can clearly see he means it in a patronising and demeaning way.

 

Can't believe this stretches to six pages, compared to actually important stuff that's going on in the world!
Personally I think Rodgers has always had an attitude problem and has probably upset a lot of people male and female over the years without this fuss, could somebody not have just done a poll?

 

You quoted my profanities. I explained why I use em.

I wanted to point out also that no one is perfect. Re the addition referencing the thread.

I've said all I want to say on the subject. In response to what is seemed to be deemed right. It's ok for you to use that term.
But belittling to use little girl. I take everything in context as I see it. I did say I hadn't heard the little girl comment at the time and having read more information and yes I agree not the best response from Rogers. Mysoginistic maybe. Only he knows.

If I have the wrong person I'll apologise. But I won't drag it back up on here. For eg Mansfield red to try belittling anyone with his childish retorts.

I'll pm you the subject but not prepared to go over old calls.

 

Nowt to do with it. Ive pm'd her. I don't need to elaborate to you or anyone else.

 

I got a telling off at Christmas from a women I’ve known for 20+ years as a family friend for calling her “my love” - speechless.

 

It'll be a WUM comment. That's for sure.

 

Can't you see how it could be interpretated though?

You brought something up and specifically questioned Jamdrop, so she asked for clarification. You then said you didn't want to go over old ground - even though it was you who initially brought it up in the first place.

 

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People used to call each other ‘duck.’ Upset me so much I started pulling my feathers out.

 

I really dont care. When its Mansfield. I worked out how he works. Trying to belittle folk.

I brought up the question of if it's ok to call someone thick. Vague I admit. But hoping I didnt need to go further.

I was pressed on the subject matter.
I 100% apologise if i have the wrong person. Btw.
The subject matter in my view was sensitive and I won't go over it again. She will know from my pm.

I have conversations with Jamdrop all the time on here. Agreements and disagreements. The one I refer to her in a pm I wouldnt want to go over again. For either of us.
As for Mansfield he jumped in like he does and spoils debate.

 

You need to chill out, christ almighty.

I just thought it was funny that you brought something up from the past to make a point, tell the poster that you'd bitched about them to someone else on here who you know in person, then stopped short because that would then "be dragging up old coals". Playground stuff.

 

I have the right to reply to any false thinking including yours.

I did just make a point on my initial post.

I expected a simple answer. Not the one I got. As I thought Jamdrop would remember.
And wanted her opinion hopefully understanding the point.

As for bitching. Stop assuming too much . It cropped up in conversation one day and I asked his (Cowboy).opinion on the matter.
That's why cowboy responded the way he did. I was pointing out why he did. And he openly agreed on the same subject. Not slagging anyone off.

Wasn't it you who made a false assumption And skit about homophobia on a thread I was discussing with Mansfield.

If not I'll apologise now.

And if folk didnt respond I wouldnt have to. But it's a prerogative of all.

 

That's two accusations thrown at two separate posters now...

 

I like it how you think this is some sort of "gotcha"...

If you're dealing with someone in a professional manner they're never a 'girl' - even if it's a 17 year old I wouldn't dream of saying "good girl" at best it's weird and infantilising and at worst it's creepy.

Some of the people on here would be out faster than they could walk if they worked for me. Jesus Christ.

 

And.? Should I lie down like titus says and take what's thrown at me. Would you. ? If incorrect. As for the other incident I've spoken privately to her about it and apologised if I'm wrong. But I hope she understands the subject would be pointless as we disagreed vehemently at the time. Both fighting our corner.