I get it pretty much every year, started getting the pains on Monday, go on hols next Wed, so not great timing......fortunately the only painkiller that seems to work is alcohol.
I found love for the first time at 41. Wasn’t expecting it. Didn’t really want it. But you know it’s amazing and I thank my lucky stars every day. Never give up on yourself or others. I’m a better person than I was and it’s absolutely lovely.
Stop looking for it. It will trip you up when you least expect this. Mine was at St James Park bank Holiday Monday 1998. 25 years on still together thinking ,we didn't have such a bad day after all 1 3 if I remember . So your right BFC might find you love. Good luck. Ps I was 37 at the time and had all but given up.