No one wears it for a laugh I thought those posts over Xmas were from a different 'you' as you usually seem a decent chap. I can only offer you my condolences, never easy losing the ones we love.
I've gone back over this whole thread. I think Sunlighter has got a reaction but not the one he wanted so he's cut his nose off in spite of his face and been petulant. He's acting up to the pantomime villain persona. He just wants to be loved. His cringe mechanism and embarrassment hasn't kicked in so he's kept digging. I'd hazard a guess he's a young poster. Embarrassment has kicked in today and he's had a flounce and asked to delete his account as a consequence. I've been there and kept digging in posts before. I've gone bright red when I've read some of my responses. I could be wrong but I'd like to think he didn't mean a lot of what he's posted.
SD I've been on the opposite side of arguments with you before but you've never, ever resembled Sunlighter and have always been gracious and prepared to meet half way. There's no comparison whatsoever.
Cheers mate. I just couldn't get my head round what I was reading yesterday and found myself trying to rationalise it. I couldn't and drew the conclusion he was a young poster. Especially with that lack of compassion and graciousness.