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  1. Loko the Tyke

    Loko the Tyke Administrator Staff Member Admin

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    No she can't

    In my opionion.

    Give it a year or two when all her mates are looking at uni's and loving college and the whole 'student' thing, and she'll get all worried about missing out on life, all her friends will be single having the time of their lives getting on at her, and then BANG! She'll drop the guy without even thinking

    Not that I'm talking from previous experiences, no no no!
     
  2. Journo Tyke

    Journo Tyke Well-Known Member

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    RE: My only concern, as it were,

    That's what I'd say...

    However, everyone's different.

    Then again, she surely can't have had enough experience to know what love is? I'll admit I've thought I've been in love a couple of times, and now I realise I wasn't. I'd say I've only been in love twice in hindsight.
     
  3. Gue

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    ARE YOU TOMMY TYKE?????????????
     
  4. Gue

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    Don't worry about it. My missis is 25 years younger than me, and it hasn't made a halfpenny of difference. Fortunately had no probs with the in-laws.
     
  5. Gue

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    you say there is an age gap of 7years but I think what is more important is the actual age of the girl. For example, if she is a sixteen year old and you are 23 then there could be major problems with the attitudes of others,particularly the parents.However,if the girl is in her early twenties and has had some experienced of life's trials and tribulations then,it should not be a problem. Problems that do arise therefore would/could manifest from biased attitudes and opinions of others who may or may not have taken a dislike to you,for whatever reason. Do not neccesserily focus on the age gap perhaps you need to become aware of other factors which might or might not be influencing the situation.
     
  6. Gue

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    So ... she is 15 then.

    You have two options:

    (1) Go see her family & explain how you feel. Say that it's not a physical relationship & that you really love her.

    They will then cave your head in.

    or

    (2) Move to the US. Certain States in the deep South won't frown on your relationship ... in fact it will be encouraged, although you may have to claim to be cousins - which you possibly are.

    15.
    She's 15 years old.
    That's 15.

    ''Love, stop playing with your 'My Little Pony' & listen to what I'm going to say to your 24 stone, heavily tattooed Dad''.

    15 years of age.
    Kinell fire.
     
  7. Gue

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    The age gap ain't a problem to us. But it will be to her parents. She ain't one to feel like she is missing out by having "fun". She as always seemed happier in a relationship. She as been through alot with guys already such has being cheated on, harrased for sex etc. That one of the things she likes about me because i don't put pressure on her because she knows i wouldn't do that.
     
  8. Gaz

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    RE: You're giving advice on lurve?

    Yeah, I know. But I have been watching Living TV.
     
  9. tyr

    tyrone Banned Idiot

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    RE: Age is relative

    WHAT DOES A 22 YEAR OLD MAN WANT TO GO OUT WITH 15 YEAR OLD SCHOOL GIRL FOR.

    YOU ARE ONE SICK INDIVIDUAL

    gO AND SEE A SHRINK,. BEFORE YOU DO SOME HARM
     
  10. Gue

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    My wife is 7 years younger than me

    but then again, she is a grown-up!
     
  11. Gue

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    Tyrone

    When you can spell better come and join in this conversation again. People here are being very friendly giving me advice then you just be an idiot. You can't help who you fall for. So what if she is 15. She is more level headed and mature then the tarts i see going around town on a saturday night.
     
  12. Redstone

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    i once went out with a 15 yr old

    though i was also 15 at the time. Get away from the school gates! its just not on that.
     
  13. tyr

    tyrone Banned Idiot

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    RE: Well

    ARE YOU SUPRISED THAT IT WOULDNT GO DOWN TOO WELL


    YOU NEED HELP AND FAST
     
  14. bfc

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    Grow up,

    Is there something the matter with you, shes at SCHOOL still. The fact that you said "she would be grounded forever if her parents found out" is a pretty big alarm bell.
    If it was my daughter then the rozzers would be knocking on your door as soon as i found out.
    Walk away now!
     
  15. tyr

    tyrone Banned Idiot

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    RE: Tyrone

    PLEASE GO AND GET SOME HELP BEF0RE YOU DO SOME HARM TO THIS GIRL.

    LEAVE HER TO GROW UP AND HAVE NORMAL ADOLESCENT LIFE
     
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    Seven years is nothing?

    Very true when both people are adults, my mrs is 8 years older than me but were both adults. A 15 year old girl is a GIRL not a woman, ive got a 14 year old step daughter and she's just a kid allthough they think there adults there not and for a 22 year old bloke to be sniffing round school kids and people say its allright is all wrong.
     
  17. Gue

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    I'll field this one ...

    You seem to have one thing in common with 'your bint'.
    Her age: 15.
    The number of times you went to school: 15.

    You are on an internet forum.
    You can't expect to post something so contraversial and only get positive feedback.

    Are you sure she's not 22?
     
  18. Gaz

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    To be fair...

    Half those 'tarts' are about 15.
     
  19. Gue

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    So.......

    If you was in love with someone and "some" people didn't agree you would walk away ? If you do that then you always wonder what if because unless you try you don't know if it will work or not. We wouldn't have sex which some here probably think i would be daft enough to do. We wouldn't have anything to be ashamed of just enjoying eachothers company.
     
  20. bfc

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    SHE IS A KID!!

    Stop trying to justify it with babble about being in love, the girl is still at school, If you cant see the problem with that then there is something seriously wrong with you.
    For a start she is probably still very hormonal and not developed totally yet as a woman, do you not realise that shes probably doing this to wind her parents up or to look good with her mates.
     

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