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  1. Gue

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    RE: SHE IS A KID!!

    Not to wind her parents up because they don't know how she feels about me if you read the first post. Her mates are fine about it. None of them act funny with me. Lets change it ever so slightly. If she was 16 and i was 23 would it be alright all of a sudden because she had reached legal age of sexual activity ?
     
    Guest, Nov 11, 2005
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  2. Gue

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    And ...

    ... did you notice he thought that I was you?
    I can understand it.
    We are like two peas from the same pod you & I.

    You know how they say love can conquer anything?
    Maybe if Confused Colin decided to leave her alone for a couple of years, which would get the respect of her family, and then see how the ground lies when she's maybe 18-ish ... and if they do indeed have such a bond - they could just pick it up again - with everyone's support.
    Does that make sense?

    Either that or the deep South.

    You heard it here first.
     
    Guest, Nov 11, 2005
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  3. bfc

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    RE: SHE IS A KID!!

    No it flaming wouldn't, do you not see the major fundimental problem here. She is a child and you are an adult. If she were my daughter then i wouldn't let some sicko who'd been i think the words grooming my child near her ever, walk away and then in a couple of years if she still feels the same maybe then you could try seeing each other or if you carry on the only way your going to be seeing her is the other side of a perspect window in doncatraz.
     
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  4. Redstone

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    it would be ok

    if she was 20 and you were 27! im 21 and i would never be with someone who is 15. grow up really!
     
    Redstone, Nov 11, 2005
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  5. Gue

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    RE: SHE IS A KID!!

    I ain't been grooming her. She said she loved me first. I always use to treat her like a sister. Whenever we have had problems in the past including relationship problems we have been there for eachother. Over time we have just grown closer more time we have spent getting to know eachother. It wasn't like going up to a stranger and chatting them up. We know eachother really well.
     
    Guest, Nov 11, 2005
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  6. tyr

    tyrone Banned Idiot

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    RE: And ...

    I did, which is also a concearn, lol
     
    tyrone, Nov 11, 2005
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  7. Gue

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    It'll all end in tears and broken limbs probably!
     
    Guest, Nov 11, 2005
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  8. Sup

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    how did you meet her?
     
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  9. JLWBigLil

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    Can I ask

    how would you feel if she was your teenage daughter and wanted to go out with someone in their twenties?
     
    JLWBigLil, Nov 11, 2005
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  10. Gue

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    RE: how did you meet her?

    Wo Wo, dunt want to go into all the sordid details! Tell us more!
     
    Guest, Nov 11, 2005
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  11. Gue

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    RE: Can I ask

    Well i would be a little worried of his intentions. But i would rather my daughter be open with me rather then sneaking behind my back. Then if he hurt her THEN and only then would i get him lol.
     
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    Seriously I would leave it until

    shes left school at the VERY, VERY least. It will cause hell otherwise. People wont see a couple in love, they'll see an adult with a schoolgirl. A mate of mine was in a similar situation a while back. They agreed to leave it until she'd done her GCSEs, which was earlier this year. However hes been with somene else for a year now. He made a very wise decision in my opinion.
     
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  13. JLWBigLil

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    Not all children

    can talk to their parents.
    I know I can talk to mine but don't always because I don't want to give them more things to worry about.
    When they find out I get told off though as they say they can't help unless I tell them.
     
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    RE: Seriously I would leave it until

    Great avatar thingy(Y)
     
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  15. JLWBigLil

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    Just so you know

    I'm watching what Laura is doing.

    My son then 17 thought he was in love with a 15 year old and her with him. They decided to be friends as he didn't want to put any pressure on her to see him because she had to concentrate on her schoolwork.
    Over a year later and they are both still good friends but are in happy relationships with other people.
     
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  16. tyr

    tyrone Banned Idiot

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    RE: Not all children

    And not all children are as wise as you
     
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  17. JLWBigLil

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    I'm sure she's been here before.

    Laura has always been very grown up for her age. We used to say she was 4 going on 40!
     
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  18. tyr

    tyrone Banned Idiot

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    RE: I'm sure she's been here before.

    I never meet her or you for that matter of fact.

    But her postings are some of the most intelligent on here.

    You must be very very proud of her
     
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  20. J B

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    I only know you from reading posts!

    But it's clear you're one of the most sensible people on here.....a credit!
     
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