What is happiness?

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  1. kestyke

    kestyke Well-Known Member

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    Doing things that you enjoy and care about, sometimes sharing them with people that you love or like.
     
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    Im honestly not sure which feels a little sad. I do often wonder what the boy I used to be dreamed of growing up & I now wonder about the life i acfually have and how it measures up. Ps. I’m good btw just a thought provoking question.
     
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    Bang on.

    We had a 10 year period when all 4 of my grandparents slowly died one after the other with all spending time in care homes.

    Seeing how stressed out my parents were was awful.
     
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    Are you familiar with Mo Gawdat’s work? Very interesting on this subject.
     
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    SuperTyke Well-Known Member

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    I'm barely familiar with Mo Farah's work nevermind Mo Gawdat. I will have a Google and a good read
     
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    There’s some good podcasts with him on too. It’s a very inspiring and thought provoking story.
     
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    Me & you according to Gilberto
     
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    Relaxing in the company of my partner and our dogs. If that’s us at home, or on a walk together or maybe away on holiday, that’s the happiest time to me.
     
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    And this.
     
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  11. Tyke The Tree-Frog

    Tyke The Tree-Frog Well-Known Member

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    It's the one thing I actually agree with Andrew Tate on (although, in all honesty, I can't claim to have seen much of him...), seeing my loved ones brings me that happiness, as has been mentioned already here!
     
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    Happiness is loneliness, but loneliness is cleanliness.cleanliness is godliness.
     
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    I go along with that. I've just woken up feeling happy, love it when I do , with things to look forward to and the birds singing. Just watching a bit of the test before work.
     
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    A warm gun?

     
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    Easy, but not easy to find. It's contentment.. not wanting anything else that's not there Infront of you at that time.. When you're mind stops saying 'right what's next'.
     
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    When I wake up and my elbows are not touching wood.
     
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    37 posts in with a title like this and Mr Dawson has not popped up with something rude? Can someone check if he is OK? :D
     
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    Happiness tends to be spasmodic and temporary. As much as I treasure those bouts of happiness what gives me greater pleasure is contentment. Seeing my children and grand kids growing up to be fundamentally good people and my wife and I having lives well lived.
     
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    Moments of happiness are one thing we can find in activities- like you say, Barnsley scoring, getting a strike in Ten Pin Bowling, a good meal, a walk, the gym....and so on.

    But long-term the experts seem to think that finding Purpose is the root to long term happiness.
     
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    To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentations of their women.
     
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