When bad days get worse

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  1. Durkar Red

    Durkar Red Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear your situation, not a lot anyone can say that can alter anything other than my wife was a Sister on ICU for 25yrs and we still have friends working in the ICU , they will do everything possible to get your wife through , I hope you both get through the other side of this
     
    Durkar Red, Mar 7, 2022
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    Thinking of you and yours.
     
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  4. Tyk

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    Please don't think like that. It's absolutely not any sort of 'failure' on your behalf, far from it, I know from our PM chats the lengths you've gone to.

    All the very best to you and your family.
     
    Tyketical Masterstroke, Mar 7, 2022
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    Mate don’t blame yourself. I don’t know why I’m saying this, because in your position I’d do exactly the same thing. But really, please don’t look at it like that. And now, as someone said, she is in the very best place. They know what they’re doing.
     
    StatisTYKE, Mar 7, 2022
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    Stay strong.
    Love from all here in the Badger sett.
     
    Mr Badger, Mar 7, 2022
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    Hope things soon improve for your missus DWL
    All the best to uou both for a speedy recovery.
     
    Simon De Montforte, Mar 7, 2022
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    Sincerely hope she pulls through mate.. all best too you all..
     
    Sopwith Camel, Mar 7, 2022
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    So sorry to read about this. My thoughts are with you both and hoping for a good recovery.
     
    ScubaTyke, Mar 7, 2022
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    I send my best wishes to you and your wife. Sad story mate hopefully a good outcome.
     
    arabian_ian, Mar 7, 2022
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    I hope your wife makes a rapid and full recovery.

    But can I make a plea, based on the quote above, please do not add guilt to all the other emotions you're feeling right now. It really doesn't sound to me like you failed at anything.
     
    Plankton Pete, Mar 7, 2022
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    Sorry to hear about your Missus , hope she makes a full recovery ,
    Don’t blame yourself it sounds as though you’ve made a giant effort to keep it away from her all this time .
    Concentrate on getting her well the rest will be dealt with when she recovers .
     
    Marlon, Mar 7, 2022
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    All the best to you and your wife. Will be thinking of you. Take care
     
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    So sorry to hear such awful news ...you are both in the shed household thoughts ....healing thoughts sent....
     
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    You haven't failed mate, you've managed to protect her through the worst variants of this horrible disease into a time when the disease is less severe and medical knowledge of how to treat it is so much better.
    Good luck and stay strong.
     
    scarf, Mar 7, 2022
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    So sorry to here this DWLC. Hope your wife gets better soon
     
    Tyke_67, Mar 7, 2022
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    Like many others it's almost impossible to know what to say, except that we all hope that she'll be OK, and also none of it is even close to being your fault. So please don't blame yourself. Best wishes to you and your wife.
     
    Stahlrost, Mar 7, 2022
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    Stay strong. She can beat this.
     
    Jack Tatty, Mar 7, 2022
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    Words are inadequate. Sending out all my best wishes to your wife, and to you, that she pulls through. My messages are open, should you ever feel the need to use them, even if only to vent to someone or create a bit of a short-term distraction for you.
     
    Sheriff, Mar 7, 2022
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    Can only add my best wishes to those offered already. I sincerely hope your wife makes a full recovery.
     
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