Yesterday a close friend of mine...

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  1. Spa

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    Tragic to leave his freinds and family in such a manner

    very, very sad.

    I cannot comprehend what goes through the mind of such a person that can cause them to subject loved ones to such a tragedy.

    My thoughts are with his friends & family, particularly his poor children.
     
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    I couldn't agree more

    Obviously it was completely out of character.</p>

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    I'm at a complete loss as to the reasoning or why he chose to do what he did but it's a very sad day for all that knew him.</p>
     
  3. Gue

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    Me too

    ..he was my first boss at my current employers.

    He inspired me and i've always looked up to him even though we were the same age.

    I went on his stag do, to his wedding and have always thought the world of him.

    In a strange way he's the reason i'm where I am today, both in and out of work.

    I have just drove by where he killed himself and can't believe he's not here anymore.

    Sleep well Pin Head

    Love Macca
     
  4. Gue

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    RE: Selfish.......could have killed several others too. nt

    Yes he could, and the people who saw what happened have to live with that but if you would have known him you would understand that he couldn't have had any kind of rational thought when he did what he did.

    He must have been it the depths of despair and not in total control of his own sensability.

    Please show a bit of respect, the man i knew would do anything for others.

    It's not a moan but i knew him personally so i am in a position to have an opinion.

    It's also selfish because he has left a lot of people devastated today but he must have had his reasons.
     
  5. Gue

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    some say suicides are cowards, but

    but I somehow think the opposite.To take ones own life is a massive step, and I feel for the guy.He must have been so low.I cannot even imagine the misery he must have been feeling. I hope his next of kin are looked after.
     
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    Sorry to hear that love

    My heart goes out to his family and friends.
     
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    So,Sad Terry,poor chap,
    my thoughtss go to his Family
    RIP,
     
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    Makes you wonder, that this tragic episode of a mans life is so huge to his family and friends. That other issues on this board are so trivial. (cryin)
     

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